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Can you name an example of bad parenting?

12.06.2025 03:20

Can you name an example of bad parenting?

Too many parents make this mistake — they try to mold their children, like clay, to become exactly what they want them to be. Their ambition is limitless, their disappointment and insults a neverending reservoir of bitterness. They push and push their little puppet. Until the child either succeeds in realizing these lofty dreams the parents have dreamed for it… or until the child, unable to secure victory, breaks.

When I was in elementary school there was one girl whose mother was one of those “Tiger Mom” types. Always reaching for the stars. Only the best was good enough. And we barely noticed it, at the time. Because her daughter did well. She was the type of girl who was quick to catch on, had a near-photographic memory and excellent recall — school would have been fairly easy for such a girl either way, even without a mother always kicking her butt to do more.

Her son, however, was a different creature. He wasn’t the bookish type at all.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

So he got grounded. A lot. Got scolded a lot. It wasn’t ever good enough. Even a grade that, for a guy like him, was pretty solid? Wasn’t good enough. Because it wasn’t the highest. Because wasn’t the best in his class. His classmates would go on schooltrips and he’d be stuck at home, studying. The only thing he truly loved was sports. Athletics. He excelled in them, and he was particularly good at hockey. Only on the field was he free to be himself, if only for an hour or so. His sister, meanwhile, continued to perform outstandingly — by the time she finished high school, she went to an American university on a scholarship. No doubt grateful to be away from her overly involved mother.

The brother wasn’t so lucky. One day in his final year of high school, he came home with a failing grade. Math, I believe it was. His mother told him he couldn’t play the hockey championship finals, as punishment. The one game he’d trained for the whole year. He lost it — in one flare of anger, he hit her with his hockey stick. It hit her temple. She fell down the stairs. And died. Kid was tried as a juvenile, I believe he wasn’t yet eighteen. No idea what became of him. But you may say, his mother’s ambition and desire to live vicariously through her own children is what killed her. She kept pushing a boy into doing things he wasn’t built to do. Into excelling in fields and areas he wasn’t made to excel in…